REMEMBERING AND COPING WITH A LOSS OF A PET
For many people, beloved pets are a part of the family. So, when a pet — especially a companion animal passes away, it can be devastating for those left behind. Their absence can leave a huge void in their household that can be felt for years to come, and in some cases, forever.
Whether the pet died unexpectedly, ran away or had to be put down as a result of a lengthy terminal disease, losing a pet is hard for the owner regardless of the circumstances. Grief is tenacious and can dig deep into the heart. It affects daily routines and can leave someone feeling very hopeless.
When a pet dies, it can be devastating for a child. Each child processes grief differently. Though it’s painful, the loss of a pet can be an important opportunity to help children learn how to handle difficult experiences. It can be their first encounter dealing with death. A combination of talking about the death and closure activities can help you and your child heal.
WHEN TELLING A CHILD ABOUT DEATH YOU SHOULD:
- Be honest and use simple, direct language.
- Avoid euphemisms.
- Let the child be a part of the process.
- Encourage the child to talk freely about the pet.
- Give the child plenty of hugs and reassurance.
- Discuss death, dying and grief honestly.
- Communicate to your child that it’s natural for them to feel a variety of emotions.
- Reassure the child that everything is OK.
- A variety of books are available to aid in this topic.
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